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Autism In Girls – How Is It Different From Boys 

Introduction

Have we ever imagined this – whenever we think about Autism, we often consider a boy with certain symptoms like social difficulties, But did we know that autism can look different in girls? 

But the fact is, many girls with autism went unnoticed or are diagnosed so much later than boys because their traits are different.

So in this blog, we will understand how autism manifests in girls, why it’s harder to diagnose, and why learning these differences is important to support girls on the spectrum

Traits of Autism in Girls

In girls, ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) presents differently as compared with boys, which can lead to challenges in early detection. 

Here are some key signs indicators to watch for girls : 

Camouflaging - Girls with autism may intentionally or unintentionally mimic social behaviours just to fit in the society, leading to emotional distress and exhaustion when alone.
Challenges in interacting - They struggle in maintaining friendship, due to difficulties in understanding social regulations and expectations.
Differences in communication - Sometimes, girls may develop language skills at a typical rate but still face difficulties in functional language use, such as - having conversations and understanding sarcasm.
Focused interest - Generally, girls often develop intense interests in specific topics, which may appear socially acceptable compared to boys because they have stereotypical interests.
Sensory Imbalance - Over or under response to sensory stimuli, such as sounds, lights and smells.
Emotional Regulation - Difficulties like anxiety and depression can mask the underlying autism.
Act of Perfectionism - Behaviour towards high standard and difficulty in coping with changes in events.
Missed Diagnosis - Because of masking abilities, many girls are diagnosed late or misdiagnosed with some other medical issues.

What are the main differences in symptoms of autism in girls and boys?

Traits Symptoms In Girls Symptoms In Boys
Social Interaction They try to fit in the group Prefer to play alone
Camouflaging May mask just to fit in society Likely to mask signs
Communication Advanced language capabilities but problem in functional language Delayed or unusual speech patterns
Interest Aim to socially acceptable subjects but with the same level of intensity May show deep interest in specific topics
Behaviour Repetitive behaviour Over repetitive behaviour
Sensory Imbalance Over or under sensitivity to light, sound or smell Clear sensitivity to sounds and light
Emotional Struggle More likely to experience anxiety or depression May experience meltdowns
Diagnosis Masking leads to late diagnosis or misdiagnosis They diagnosed due to overt symptoms
Co-occurring Situation Anxiety and Depression ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder)

Why are girls with autism often undiagnosed?

Autistic girls often go undiagnosed because of a combination of social, systemic and biological factors. 

Here are the reasons why: 

Stereotypical criteria of diagnosis – Historically criteria for diagnosis of autism were based on observations of boys, leading to male centric conditions. And this result, girls whose symptoms are different, are often missed. 

Masking Behaviour – Many girls with autism develop masking their symptoms, which means they try to hide or just fit in society, and this makes it harder to diagnose. 

Gender Biases in Diagnosis – There is prevalent bias that comes with male autism behaviours, such as deep interest in specific subjects. Girls have less stereotypical behaviours, which result in their signs being unnoticed. 

Lack of Research – Traditionally most of the research on autism was focused on males, leaving a huge gap in understanding symptoms of autism in females. 

Let’s take an example to make it more clear, a young girl who excels academically but is facing difficulties with social interactions and suffering anxiety. People might think her anxiety is the main problem without considering that she could also have autism. Without a full picture of symptoms, she might not get the support she needs. 

So it is important to identify these symptoms so that autistic girls can also get the accurate diagnosis and support at the right time. 

What are the differences in diagnosing autism in boys and girls?

Imagine this – a young girl who loves spending time with a few close friends but hesitates with small talk and understanding jokes. She may come across as introverted, and people think this is her personality. 

Importantly, her struggles could be a sign of autism, which might not be recognized because they are unable to fit in the typical pattern. 

If her traits are not observed, she may not receive the necessary support. So early diagnosis can help her to get support socially and emotionally. 

ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) develops differently in boys and girls, which can affect the process of diagnosis.

Boys have obvious symptoms like repetitive behaviours. While girls are expert at masking their symptoms to fit in groups or society, leading to delay in diagnosis.
Historically, diagnostic criteria are developed for male behaviours, this can lead to biases with autistic girls.

What are the methods for testing a girl for Autism?

Methods of diagnosing autism in girls involve a comprehensive evaluation process. However, core diagnostic tools remain the same for both the genders, so it is essential to adapt the approach to address gender specific presentations. 

Let’s start with: 

  1. Medical History – The evaluation test starts with gathering a detail about medical history which includes childhood development, and other medical issues. And for females it is crucial to observe subtle signs that may have been unnoticed.

2. Screening techniques – This includes:

M-Chat (Modified Checklist for Autism in Toddlers) - This is a questionnaire for parents that helps to recognize children for risk of autism.
AQ (Autism Spectrum Quotient) - This technique measures the degree to which an individual exhibits signs of autism spectrum.

3. Comprehensive Diagnosis – Includes: 

ADOS (Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule) - This evaluates social interaction and communication.
ADI-R (Autism Diagnostic Interview Revised) - Interview with parents to gather history and recent behaviour patterns.

Summing Up..

Girls face difficulties with maintaining friendships and basic understanding of society expectations, as their symptoms are not as obvious as boys.
Girls are good at masking their signs to fit in a group, and this causes emotional distress.
Females might have good language skills but still they struggle with regular functional language.
So it is necessary to identify these differences so that autistic girls can also receive proper diagnosis and care.

“Every thoughts is an experiment” This was mine —

Written by Prachi – May,2025

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Reference

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